He Cheated on You? Surprise Surprise. That's Life.. Gay Life.

I read a lot of blogs.

AJ's Ramblings is actually one of the more popular ones because his entries are short, easy to read and charming. He recently found out his boyfriend was cheating on him.

Read his devastation here.

You can actually trace his blog back to when he had a girlfriend, got kicked out of his house, got beat up and first had sex ... it's addicting.

I found another blogger who is 29 and has decided that he can no longer suppress his sexual desires. He just started writing and it's already so good. I commented saying that he has a lot to experience and discover the emotional roller coaster that is gay awesomeness.

Basically the stuff that AJ is experiencing right now. His goal is to experience it all within a year before he turns 30. I love it. It's like gay life FAST FORWARD!

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I feel sort of mean because I'm not sympathizing for AJ. I can only point at him and say, A-HAH! I knew it, I knew it... then shrug my shoulders and pat him on the back, virtually and offer him cookies. "Only suffer for a day AJ and then move on. One day." That's what my mom would say.

I predict that they're going to get back together. New gays are very forgiving... they need each others support; comfort... and love is rare.

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A friend of mine also discovered that his boyfriend was "sleeping with the community" for an entire month before he found out. *sigh*

I feel like those who experience infidelity understand the emotional damage and mental suffering that's involved. And better/mature later relationships are created because of it. Experienced lovers may be guarded, damaged, difficult, careful... but they make less mistakes.

My first boyfriend said to me, "once a cheater... always a cheater." We were 19 at the time, his words affected me. But I disagree. Once you hurt someone you love, once someone you love hurts you... you become stronger, better... and the less likely you are to make the same mistakes again- being tempted, taking love for granted and/or leaving your heart unprotected.

You have become... an EVOLVED GAY!! 10 Million Experience Points! Pew pew pew!

Unless... there is a deeper issue- a void in your soul. Unless there is a pattern in your failed relationships, like a morbidly obese American Super Sizing their meal everyday etc. etc. then we have a problem... you have an addiction.

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If I ever got serious with anyone I would say, "please don't cheat on me, tell me you want an open relationship." It was spare both of us the pain. Don't hide the boy, share him.

Do I want an open relationship? No, the only temptations I have are from my straight boy crushes... we'll have to make an agreement.

Let's be honest, if the straight boy is acting curious, you'd be an idiot not to teach him the ways.

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I haven't seen the 19 year old for a while. I feel like the beginning part of dating has ended and frankly we may be getting a bit bored. Eh- letting it take its "natural course." But his age is becoming more apparent in many ways.

The giant pilloraffe he got me has (temporarily) replaced my need for night time company. I fall asleep much quicker. I love it.

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We make mistakes. We learn. Just don't get addicted to the poison.

And ID LOVE for you to prove me wrong. Show me a monogamous inexperienced gay couple in their early to mid twenties hitting their year mark and I will raise my eyebrow in pure skepticism (and jealously).

Just Kicking it With the Folks

On Friday my folks invited me out to The Boiling Crab.

My mom is a savage. She tore up the crab with her hands and ate ALL of the insides!

And.. wow, there were a lot of cute Asian boys there. Thank goodness I had a bib.

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The Movie "Knowing" with Nicolas Cage was pretty good, considering how much I lowered my expectations. It was very M.Night ShamalamadingDong in a bad way. If I were with my friends we would have been laughing because Nicolas cage was almost as bad as MarkyMark in "The Happening." It's really hard to do these types of disaster movies because they take themselves so seriously, yet cast such horrible actors.

My dad was on the edge of his seat, he loves these types of movies... hmm.. me too.

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You should hang out with your parents more, you're lucky enough to have them.
Unless they pushed you to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, those selfish assholes can go to hell for wanting you to succeed financially/intellectually and suppressing your creative nature and real identity.

Haha. No seriously, just for a day.

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I got a postcard from Japan today and it made my day.




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Fashion Police



"I'm sorry, we don't have a phone available for your particular taste... you might want to try the gardening section of home depot."

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I found a great new blog. "OK, I'm Gay. Now What?"
I love it.

My New Boyfriend

His name is Paul Dateh....

*swooon*



And even sexier when I saw him on concert.

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Ken Hirai
Is a conundrum. He's 100% Japanese.


This video makes me laugh. The scrawny model girls are so hungry, they keep licking inedible objects. And Ken's voice doesn't match his face... it's like someone grabbed his balls and said, "SING IN JAPANESE BITCH OR I'LL CUT THEM OFF I SWEAR!"

But he's so pretty.
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I'm feeling this shift in popular music.
Everything is becoming danceable/electronic ... even R&B.



I would add Chris Brown's "Forever," but he beats women.

What Korean Do You Like

안녕하세요
An nyoung ha seh yo!


Korean Girls!? They differ by hair style! So Many to choose from(Gee)


Or one of these Korean Boys... which hairless twink do you liiiiiie? (Shinee)


Or Korean Craig David (Wheesung)


Or Korean boy on Crack (SeugRi)


Or Buff Wet Korean (Tae Yang)


Do you see my camio? I'm the dude with the fake glasses.


or Korean on wings (Bi)


or Tall Skinny Korean in S&M (Bi)


Black and White Korean (Se7en)


or English Learning Korean (Se7en with Lil Kim)

This is Raffy

So... the 19 year old behaviorist got me a giraffe pillow that transforms into a plush.

K... no more giraffe stuffed animals. But I welcome other giraffe things like notebooks, t-shirts and toothbrushes.

Hehe, Raffy is the perfect sleeping mate because he's big... biggest giraffe plush ever.

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I usually buy things for boys I like. Hmm, i guess he beat me to the chase. I enjoy the company and the attention, yet I don't feel restrained and on the flip side, nor do I feel obsessed.

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I had (Shady) Pho with the InNOut Guy again. I like how he appreciates my company- asking me why "I'm so nice to him." I told him... that we, as gay people or as people in general, need to try to be nicer to each other. I makes life more tolerable. And again, I enjoy talking to people observing behaviors and learning about myself.

He paid for my Lunch. You know, Vietnamese people (from Vietnam) fight over paying for the meal. God, this would be so stressful IF i didn't like getting treated.

Of course, it's going to linger in my mind that I owe him.

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Oo Laotian New Years in San Francisco! I LOVE CULTURES!

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Mood: motivated.

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Antony P. recommends-

Download "The Dream" Album Love vs. Money

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New Music January - March 2009 (stop listening to "Just Dance" That was so Summer 2008)

I'm Am Idiot.

Antony invited me to go to Hunter's tonight.

I was getting all excited, invited some friends, did my hair, updated my twitter.

And then he goes... "April Fools!"

Fucking Shit!

Super Kute!!!

...is the name of this Vietnamese group from the Communist Capital Hanoi in Vietnam.


Oh here they are standing on the rubble that of an old building the government has yet to clear.

He is my favorite.... Kawaiiiii ^.^



Click him to see how gorgeous he is!!!
More Here: http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=281807

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It's like when you see them.. and you go, they're Vietnamese, aren't they? There is no denying this one.

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*edit*
I re-read this post.. I hope everyone knows I was being sarcastic!