Not Surprised

Gay coworker: i kind of just assumes that she assumes, but whenever i do that, people end up surprised when i tell them [that I'm gay]

letopho: i wasnt surprised. esp since you walk like beyonce

Gay coworker: LOL, thats the nicest thing youve ever said to me

Lunar New Year, Black History Month, Nutella Day, Super Bowl

Happy Vietnamese New Year and Black History Month

I remember last year was equally hectic because Valentine's Day also fell on the same weekend.

Today we are going to have a Super Bowl Party without watching the superbowl!  That means tons of snacks and beer and ... WHO KNOWS WHAT!!

The only time Chris writes on my wall is to have a convo with someone else.  When I join in, they stopped talking.

Shitz.. gots to run!

We rocking the large Vietnamese foreheads!

Will recap soon!

There is no THE ONE.

I posted on my facebook status, "Attention 20 something year olds: there is no "THE ONE" stop searching and focus on your careers.  You'll be happier for it."

This was sparked by my AIM conversations about the mindset of 20 something year olds.  It was reposted by other friends, but folks had something to say about my definitive remark.

I thought it was interesting what people had to say.

Switches

One of my favorite things to do is walking around with a needle deflating egos. Cockiness needs to go. 

letopho: i enjoy our purely sexual relationship
casual f-buddy: how can you not?  I mean, really, it's me
letopho: yup, sexuality is all that's of interest
casual f-buddy: well, i hope that at least my mind is interesting... ><
letopho: *silence.*

The casual f-buddy doesn't come around too often, but I'm beginning to appreciate how bluntly sexual our relationship is even if it didn't initially start that way.  On AIM he says shit like, "when are you coming over."  or "I'm in town." And that's it.  We don't hang out other than to sleep with each other, which I find quite efficient.

It's so one dimensional, it's so easy.  It's based purely on physical pleasure.

F-Buddy/Hookup

Brain - Off

Heart - Off
Body - Turned on to Max

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Hmm.. I think I've stumbled upon something. How does connect/disconnect among "the logical mind, the passionate heart" and the animalistic body relate to different types or relationships and transitioning relationships?

Committed "Perfect" Relationship
Brain - On (Made for each other)

Heart - On (They're the one)

Body - On (Wow.. MARRY THIS FUCKER!)

Crush/Infatuation
Brain - Off (You're an idiot.  You're going to regret this. Dont do it... too bad you're not listening)
Heart - On (It's gonna hurt...)
Body - On

Love Above Sex, Comfortable, Complacent (Positive)
Brain - On
Heart - On (Love that surpasses physical desires)
Body - Off

Sexless Love, Comfortable, Complacent (Negative)
Brain - On
Heart - On
Body - Off (sex in need of spice... in need of a third.....a costume...SOMETHING! QUICK!)

Robotic ... "seeing where things go," the early dating stage
Brain - On (Hmmm, they're interesting.. this can go somewhere)
Heart - Off (I think I like them, sort of.. maybe..sometimes?)
Body - On (Heh, cute smile.. good body, sure why not?)

Gold Digger/For Another Reason Besides Love
Brain - On (This is for my future, this will please my parents, I'm getting too old, this is the smart thing to do)
Heart - Off (If they died, I would be happier)
Body - Off (but you can fake it)

Do you agree?  I think it's interesting when switches turn on and off within relationships.  Makes sense, once the heart flicks on, folks get serious or in trouble or when the body switch flicks off- folks become comfortable or bored... and when the brain flicks off from dating, it becomes just a potential hook up...etc etc  Another question is, how does a switch get flicked? and what would it mean if we had complete control?!?  *rubs hands together demonically*

As for my f-buddy the switches are thankfully constant as if someone duct taped them down... so no, I don't find your mind interesting.  See you Thursday night?

I HATE ELLIPSES!!!

Seriously.

In work emails or Aim Convos, ellipsis at the end of sentences need to die.

Work:

I the files will be ready tomorrow....

Will it?! Why don't you end your fucking thought? Will it really be ready?!??! OMG!! Please reconfirm!!!!

I think that's a great idea......

Are you being sarcastic?!?!?!?! AHHHHH!!!!

AIM:

Me: I went up to him and licked my lips
Friend: ........

DUDE, call me creepy, don't let me try to read your mind. GOD.
Ellipsis = uncertainty. Caps = Yelling.

Could you imagine if folks combine the two?

I HAD SO MUCH FUN AT THE PARTY..........

Wait, so... did you? Is this my cue to ask you something?! Why are you yelling?!? STOP THE INSANITY!

Poke

I amuse myself. Click image to read convo.

Happy Birthday Mom

Via Text Message

Letopho: I called you twice last night. No pick up. :[
Mom: Sorry, I was busy. Call me tonight.
Letopho: Going snowboarding. Have a great birthday.
Mom: Thanks, love you.

Gosh, the best way to reach mom to wish her a happy birthday is by text message.

Flirt Fail

So I'm trying to flirt on AIM with this boy I recently met at one of the parties-

Letopho: what are other deal breakers?
Boy: social ignorance
Boy: lack of hygiene
Boy: gluttony
Letopho: shit
Letopho: you just listed my 3 top hobbies

I think I'm approaching this all wrong.

The Case of Bitch Face

Letopho: Did anyone hit on you at the club?
Friend: No one ever hits on me
Letopho: Aw, really?
Friend: Yeah, I think I have the case of "bitch face"
Letopho: OOOH! I wanna see your "bitch face!!!"
*conversation ends*

I think he closed my window.




Yeah, you love it Carl. 4th note harmony baby!

I used to think folks in their mid 20s making videos were odd... but DAYM I can do this shizz all day.
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Ugh.. I have 118 Youtube videos uploaded, but most of them are college club videos that I don't want to delete. Anyone know how to transfer videos from one youtube account to another? I needs to do sum cleanin'

OMG! SPAM BOTS!!!

OMG! These SPAM Bots on AIM are getting smarter!!!!

Friend Victim: hey
letopho: oh hello
letopho: how are u
Friend Victim: im just chillen and downloading some ringtones on my cellphone
Friend Victim: whats up?
letopho: at work
letopho: type type type
Friend Victim: if you wanna check it out its free the website is http://access.im/1/ycell
Friend Victim: yeah i found a nice website


OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!! YOURE NOT MY FRIEND!!! *hiissssssssssssssssssssssssss*

Looking Forward to the Bay

Danster sent me this great video of San Francisco.



"you can have something to look forward to now."

And a recommendation, "try Red jade Chinese restaurant in the Castro, the best GREEN ONION PANCAKE in the bay area and it's only 4.25! its also been on TV and gay gay friendly place"

Danster is the best!

Though I'd probably be in San Jose most of the time.

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I'm going up with my Uncle (cuz he wants me to help him drive) and going back down with a slew of homosexuals. Sweet.

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I was on the phone with my parents yesterday and they put me on speaker.

Mom. "My birthday is coming up, I'm turning 49. I'm getting old baby"
Letopho, "aww you're not old... I'm turning 25"
Mom, "Oh those are the best years... 25-30.. you're aggressive, young, lots of energy, enjoy it!"
Letopho, "I will"
Mom, "I'm so old and tired now."
Dad, "What do you mean!? We just went out dancing last night! I sang to you on stage."
Mom, "That's right Daddy, are you going to propose to me this weekend with a big rock?"
Letopho, "Where are you taking mom?"
Dad, "I found this place in Campbell on Yelp... "
Letopho, "yay"
Mom, "I hope Daddy gets me jewelery!!"
Dad, "eassssssssy Now"

My parents are silly... and my dad keeps sending me MMS's of the food he's eating. LOL.

I Give Like the Best Self Esteem Boosts

letopho: you look very unique
letopho: spot u a mile away
friend: that's another way of saying ugly
friend: thanks, jk
letopho: dang
letopho: you re not ugly, ugly ppl don't have friends

I Give Like the Best Advice

Concerned friend: I feel something's not right with my boyfriend.
letopho: =/
letopho: smell his hair
Concerned friend: ?
letopho: if you notice any strange smells
Concerned friend: hmm
Concerned friend: that sounds gross, lol
letopho: trust

Comic Life - LA Art Walk & Fierce Bitches

Click the comic!
I'm having too much fun with this.

LA Art Walk is this monthly event that brings downtown LA back to life by opening up art galleries free to the public.

Here you will find a lot of life, music, streets... but also aimlessness. Most of the population didn't seem to appreciate the art, but rather were just aimless... just following a crowd because it was something to do.... like myself.

Next time, I'm gonna try to check out exhibits.

It was interesting walking around the Theatre District of downtown. I pictured how it once used to look in its prime compared to it's current state of ghettoness.

At least I was able to fit in some hipster dancing. God, the music was terrible.

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OMG.. this is too much fun




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AIM convos

Letopho: No you wont get my pictures from LA Art Walk
Friend: I will charm you
Letopho: Uh huh
Friend: I thought everyone has seen him naked
Friend: And that is the wrong window
Letopho: HAHAHAHAHAH
Friend: Sometimes I hate AIM.

YES!